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Survey Finds 57% of Employees Would Rather Give Up Their Job Than Their Workplace Romance

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Workplace romance is a topic that continues to intrigue and provoke discussion in a professional environment. The interplay between personal relationships and work responsibilities is complex, whether it involves budding crushes, sexual encounters, or lasting partnerships.

Zety, a career service dedicated to resumes and cover letters, polled over 1,000 U.S.-based workers to examine the state of office romances. The study shed light on how romantic relationships at work impact the individuals involved and the dynamics of the whole team. It also investigated issues such as the role of technology in fostering such connections and policies regulating office romances.

The state of workplace romances

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Research findings make it clear that workplace romances are a common phenomenon. According to Zety’s survey, 8 in 10 employees claim that they have experienced a romantic relationship, casual dating, or sexual encounter with someone at work. 44% of employees have had a workplace romance once, while over half (56%) have done so twice or more. However, the dynamics of these relationships vary widely:

  • Baby boomers lead the way, with 90% having had a workplace romance, compared to 81% of Gen X, 76% of millennials and 70% of Gen Z.
  • 41% of employees have engaged in a romantic relationship with their direct supervisor (24% were in a long-term relationship, and 9% had a one-night stand).
  • 36% of employees have had a workplace romance with a colleague (32% reported a long-term relationship and 23% a one-night stand).
  • 33% of employees have been romantically involved with a direct subordinate (30% reported a long-term relationship and 15% a one-night stand).

These interactions highlight the complexity and widespread presence of workplace romances across all levels of management. Despite their involvement, the majority of workers believe that employers should prohibit these types of relationships among colleagues (91%) as well as romantic relationships between superiors and subordinates (89%).

The study found that employees care deeply about romantic relationships. 57% would rather give up their jobs than lose their workplace romance.

Technology’s role in fostering romantic connections

The survey also revealed technology’s significant influence on the landscape of workplace romances. 8 in 10 workers believe that social media and messaging apps have increased the number of these relationships. Specifically, remote work seems to foster more romantic connections:

  • 84% of remote employees report having a workplace romance compared to 75% of on-site workers.

Virtual meetings and online chat platforms have become the top ways (52%) employees meet their romantic partners at work.

The downside of office romances

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Despite their prevalence, workplace romances come with many challenges and heartache. An overwhelming 88% of workers have observed conflicts or problems stemming from these relationships. The top negative effects survey respondents reported include:

  • Retaliation (34%)
  • Worsened work-life balance (33%)
  • A decreased sense of belonging in the workplace (30%)

The repercussions can be even more severe, with 29% of employees quitting their jobs and 22% being fired because of their romantic involvement at work. Zety’s study also revealed that:

  • 92% say their workplace romance was against company policy.
  • 1 in 3 (33%) admit to cheating on their partner with a colleague. 

Navigating workplace romances policies: a gap between theory and practice

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Despite the risks, workplace romances remain a prominent aspect of work life, with 92% of employees willing to start a workplace romance in the future. 

While 88% of employees feel that workplace romances should be reported to HR, only 40% of those who have engaged in such relationships have actually disclosed them, revealing a significant gap between policy and practice. This shows the need for well-defined company policies and open communication channels, as nearly 1 in 10 employees also report a lack of clear guidelines on workplace relationships in their organization. 

Positive outcomes from workplace romances

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In contrast to the challenges posed by office relationships, these romances can also yield significant benefits. 1 in 4 employees have actually found love and met their spouse at work. Moreover, these relationships extend beyond personal connections and have resulted in:

  • Increased job satisfaction (38%)
  • Higher productivity (35%)
  • Better work-life balance (35%

However, the perks of such relationships can sometimes blur ethical lines, as 29% of employees reported receiving favoritism, and 27% received a raise or promotion due to their workplace romance. 

Harmonizing romance and professionalism

Workplace romances are inevitable in the modern work environment, and unexpectedly, the rise of remote work and digital communication tools has helped spark new relationships. It's essential for companies to establish clear policies and guidelines to manage these relationships effectively and mitigate any potential negative impacts on the workplace. Moreover, employees need to focus on maintaining harmony and professionalism to ensure that the benefits of their relationships enhance, rather than disrupt, the workplace dynamic.

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Dominika Kowalska, CPRW
Dominika is a Certified Professional Resume Writer (CPRW) and job expert with a focus on career development and onboarding processes. She writes guides helping readers create winning resumes and manage various difficulties of the job hunt.
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